No one tells you that motherhood doesn’t just change your schedule — it changes your internal temperature. In this first episode of Real Pleasure Talk, I’m speaking honestly about becoming a mother and realizing that pleasure, desire, and identity don’t disappear… they just stop performing on demand. We talk about the mental load, constant vigilance, the strange grief for your old rhythm, and the pressure to “bounce back” — emotionally, sexually, energetically — when your nervous system is still learning an entirely new language. This isn’t a fix-it episode. It’s a permission slip. To want rest and intimacy. To crave quiet and connection. To let pleasure evolve instead of forcing it to return. Welcome to Real Pleasure Talk — where it’s messy, honest, and exactly where we begin.
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